Nothing is ordinary here – except, of course, the people. They’re just like you and me, getting on with their lives as best they can. We are the only foreigners in town, so everyone knows us and knows why we’re here. When we go to the market, there are cries of “Welcome!” on all sides. The children kick a football for me to kick back, then they queue up for a handshake and they quickly exhaust their fund of English with “How are you? What’s your name?” It’s no good being an introvert if you’re a foreigner in Tulkarem.
But talking of extraordinary things – next door to our apartment is a ruined building. It used to be a police station, but it was blown up by the Israelis in 2003, during the second intifada (or uprising). On the same day they destroyed the local police HQ with an F16 rocket. This was in violation of international law which says that such weapons shouldn’t be used against targets in civilian areas.
But this is about people. What is it like to be an ordinary person in an extraordinary situation? Here are some snapshots of people I’ve met, starting in the refugee camp . . . .
An English conversation class, or an attempt at a class! I was confronted by four very giggly 30-year old girls. I think they had come to meet Per, my huge and hunky 27-year old Swedish colleague, and they seemed disappointed when he wasn’t there. Still, one of them tried to make the best of it. She asked me my age and whether I am married. “Yes,” I replied. She made an expression of disgust and walked out. But she returned a few minutes later, and one of her friends, Samira , told me that she liked me and wanted to marry me. Oh well – there’s no accounting for taste. At the end, she gave me a present – a one pound coin!
The class continued, after a fashion. I asked them to tell me about their families. One has a brother who was killed in the second intifada. Another has a brother in prison in Israel. He’s done seven years and has 14 to go. By contrast, a third said that her husband lives in Chicago and she is hoping to join him this summer. But the Israelis have refused to give her a permit to cross into Israel to go to the US embassy in Tel Aviv. She is going to try to go to the embassy in Amman, Jordan instead.
Rami the barber welcomed us into his barber’s shop (and general hanging-out venue). He gave us coffee, of course, and showed us the keys to his grandparents’ house in Haifa from whence they fled in 1948. Thousand of Palestinians keep such keys, guarding them as precious momentos of their former lives.
And Suhair. She is a wonderful lady who works at the refugee camp organising all sorts of classes such as those for expectant mothers. She was funded by the UN, but now the funding has run out. She still carries on, but works as a volunteer.
Mohammed is a serious young man. A refugee, whose family lost their home in Haifa in 1948. He used to volunteer in the camp, but has just got a job. The highlight of his life was a visit to Jerusalem with his father when he was five. Now he cannot go to Jerusalem at all. Since the Israeli government annexed East Jerusalem and built the wall around it, Palestinians living in the West Bank cannot get permits to visit Jerusalem without a good reason, such as employment. Tourism is not acceptable. I tried to imagine what it would be like for me not to be allowed to visit London . . . .
Mohammed’s neighbour has been refused a permit to go to his land behind the Separation Barrier, so his olives are going to waste. He doesn’t know why.
Issa has a brother in Norway and another in Germany. His own job is helping people to write applications for permits to pass through checkpoints and gates in the barrier. Most applications are refused, he says. When there is some current security problem, only about 10% will be granted a permit. In good times, this may rise to 40%. “They (the Israelis) treat us like chess pieces, moving us around as they please,” he said.
Now we’ll move into Tulkarem town. Just up the road from our house is Samir’s coffee shop. He likes us to visit and he won’t take any money for his fearsomely strong coffee. “Every Friday, before the barrier was built, all Tulkarem used to drive the 20km to the beach in Netanya, in Israel,” he told me. “Friday was Arab day in Netanya. But now it’s impossible.” He intends to emigrate to Norway where there is a large Palestinian community. “There is no life here,” he said. “People don’t respect humans. In Europe they do respect humans.” I hope he won’t be disappointed.
Samir’s sister, Mouna, and their elderly mother We squeezed into Mouna’s mother’s abode – a tiny shop where she sits all day, too large and arthritic to move, watching Indian movies. It’s a cold day, so there is a tray of hot coals in front of her. The occasional neighbour comes in and picks up a bottle of coke or a packet of sweets and gives her the money. Mouna serves each of us several oranges and cups of tea. Samir, Mouna and their mother are one of only two Christian families in the town. But this is not a problem to Mouna. “I love them,” she said of her Moslem neighbours. “And they love me.”
Samir and Mouna’s four brothers have all converted to Islam, partly because they wanted to marry local girls, who are all moslem.
I met Imad in a “service” – the shared minibus taxis which run all over the West Bank. His wife is Palestinian but with Jordanian citizenship. She is not allowed to visit Israel. He can visit her, but only for short visits and he has to apply for a special permit each time. Their children can travel freely from Jordan to Palestine, but this will stop when they become 16. The reason for this (I think) is that the Israelis regard any young Palestinian of 16 or older as a potential terrorist.
At the Ephraim Terminal I fell into conversation with an engineering student who had come to observe how the terminal works. His uncle in America had just died. For ten years his mother hadn’t been able to obtain a permit to visit her brother and now it is too late.
What a contrast with Fayez, the shoe shop owner with an American accent. He has visited his brother in Chicago and has seen Niagra Falls. I asked whether he had had problems obtaining a permit to leave Palestine. “No,” he said, “because I have a good business, plenty of money and a house. So there is no chance of my not returning.” Is this a general rule, I wonder? Or was he really telling me that if you have money you can effectively buy a permit?
If you get lost in Tulkarem and you want to find the EAPPI apartment, you just have to ask for Usama’s supermarket. Everyone knows Usama’s, and it’s right next door. The “supermarket” is actually a small shop packed full of groceries and other useful stuff. Usama speaks good English and welcomes us warmly. He sells delicious dates, imported from Israel. There are equally good dates grown in Jericho (in Palestine) but the Israelis will not allow Usama to obtain these because they want him to sell Israeli produce.
Muawya our taxi-driver is crucial to our work. He is a mine of local information such as which checkpoints are functioning. He is not allowed into Israel but if we want to go across, he arranges with a Palestinian Israeli friend to meet us at the border. Three weeks ago he was stopped at an internal checkpoint. The soldiers said that the papers for his car were not in order, although Muawya believes that they are. He was held by the Israelis for several hours, he had to pay fine of £400 and his car was illegally impounded for two weeks. He has a wife and three children, including a new baby, but he was unable to earn any income until his car was returned.
Samar visits us from time to time. She told us how her mother used to wear short skirts, but now such a thing would be unthinkable in Tulkarem, as in most of the West Bank. Most women wear long flowing garments and the hejab. Some younger women wear jeans and a long-sleeved top, but almost all wear the hejab. Samar herself doesn’t wear the hejab, but gets away with it by wearing a hat which covers her hair. “Tulkarem is a very traditional place,” she says. “It’s not Islam that restricts women, it’s tradition.”
Dr Khalid Sweis of Khadurie university couldn’t have given us a warmer welcome. He took us on a tour of the town in his car, including a viewpoint overlooking the Wall and Israel beyond. “All this land, as far as the Mediterranean, belonged to Tulkarem before 1948,” he said. “Even until 2003, people crossed regularly in both directions. No-one was scared. No-one was harmed. Now the wall has stopped all that.” But he was optimistic. “Everyone wants peace. We are the same as the Israelis – only our religions are different. Why can’t the leaders on both sides just leave us to get on with living together?”
And here’s another contrast.. After the gym one day (yes, there is a gym in Tulkarem and I’m a member!) Jamal kidnapped me and insisted on driving me to his pharmacy where he plied me with the inevitable coffee. Regarding the Israel/Palestine situation he said “There is no solution. We cannot accept them and they cannot accept us.”
Dr Sweis told us about his sister. Her son was imprisoned for taking part in a demonstration. Soon afterwards, the Israeli army arrived at her apartment block, and blew up all four apartments. The damage to a nearby hospital ran into hundreds of thousand of dollars.
Khaled is highly intelligent and articulate. As coffee was served he spoke calmly, but gradually his anger became apparent. He described many of the restrictions and frustrations imposed by the Occupation: permits, check points, road blocks, barrier, harrassment by soldiers, economic dependence. He has chosen the quiet way – the way of acceptance and getting on with life. But he was worried about his son. Which way would he choose? If it is the way of violent resistance, his father could hardly blame him. Hope for the future was hard to find.
Amir is a young man who works at a market stall. He greets me enthusiastically whenever I’m out shopping in the market. One day he gave me some peanuts – or rather he shoved some peanuts straight into my mouth with his rather grubby hand . . . I survived.
We upset two Israeli soldiers by wandering into an unsignposted “military area”, close to the wall. They summoned us and asked us what we were doing. They seemed unable to believe that we could live safely and happily in Tulkarem. To them Tulkarem was a dark and dangerous place, full of unknown terrors. To us, the only danger came from their nervous fingers on the triggers of their guns.
Another Israeli soldier, at an agricultural gate, came through for a chat. He was relaxed and honest. “No-one wants to stand here and check farmers’ bags,” he said. His colleague was less relaxed: “It’s for the security of Israel!” – a frequently heard mantra.
A leading West Bank lawyer happened to sit beside me in a coffee shop. His father had worked with the British. “The West Bank is a terrible place,” he said, and I waited for stories of Israel, occupation and the barrier. But none came. He just spoke about the Palestinian Authority, who have no respect for the law. He himself had frequently obtained orders from the High Court for the release of certain prisoners who had been wrongly detained, but the PA took no notice and the prisoners remain in jail.
And Ahmed, the activist. He gives us enormous support and encouragement. But he is occasionally frustrated at our unwillingness to strike directly at the occupation. Talking of the Ephraim Terminal he said “Cut the fence!” I explained what he already knew: we observe, we report, we accompany, but we don’t cut fences.
Another of our valued helpers is Mahmoud, who works for an Israeli human rights organisation. He is a busy man and is difficult to tie down. But if he phones and says ”Come with me now!” we jump up and go. One day he took us to a village whose life and economy have been utterly decimated by the building of the wall, which cuts them off from their next-door neighbours. “My friend,” he said, “the effects of the wall on Palestinian society run very, very deep”. On another occasion he took us to a small village whose occupants had been shamelessly bullied by local Israeli settlers the day before, in an attempt to force them to abandon their homes. Despite seeing such things frequently, he is deeply moved.
History – a two-edged sword
“Exodus”, the movie, tells the heroic story of the Zionist pioneers who fought to lay the foundations for the new state of Israel. And the whole world knows the history of the Holocaust and how thousands of Jewish refugees came to Palestine, despite Britain’s best efforts to keep them out. But to Palestinians, the same history looks very different – and it’s not just history, it’s current reality and it’s populated with villains.
A strong sense of history; but who are the villains?
Many Tulkarem people follow Spanish football, so the first question I’m often asked is “Are you Barcelona or Real Madrid?” to which I reply “Arsenal.” The next question is usually “Where are you from?”and I reply “From Britain.” Then the response comes: “Ah – the Balfour Declaration!”. This was the fateful decision in 1917 by the British government to allow Jews from around the world to come to Palestine. This was the start of all the trouble – or so runs the popular mythology.
And it’s not just the British who are the villains. “I am from Norway,” says my colleague, who then receives the response “The Oslo Accords!”. These are the 1993 supposedly temporary arrangements, which include the right for Israel to expand settlements and to demolish Palestinian houses in certain areas of the West Bank. Oslo is the fount of all Palestinian woes – or so runs another popular mythology.
Sadly, of course, both myths contain some truth, although neither is the whole truth.
But there’s a simpler view. Mohammed built his restaurant with his own hands in 2003. He also owns a small amount of land. “My grandfather used to own hundreds of acres of land,” he said, “but the Jews took it.”
Just like that. “The Jews took it.” Hundreds of thousands of people share this same history, but how many of us in the West are aware of it?
And finally . . .
I’ve tried to give a few glimpses of another life – life in Tulkarem, where ordinary people live in extraordinary circumstances. Surrounded by the ugly apparatus of occupation, they pursue their day-to-day lives with courage, good humour and intense frustration.
I feel deeply priveleged to have shared the lives of these extraordinary, ordinary people, and I owe it to them to pass on what I have seen and heard. This has been a very personal view, but I hope you’ve enjoyed it.
Peter Balaam
30 March 2010